Why does my dieting always fail?
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Why does my dieting always fail?

When it comes to dieting, we have so many people that approach us, who HAVE become very frustrated, disillusioned and upset with themselves.

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Our secret to a happy relationship
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Our secret to a happy relationship

We have been together for 30 years and married for 26 years. We live together, we work together, we even go to the gym together. So what is the secret to our happy relationship?

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Find happiness in uncertainty
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Find happiness in uncertainty

The old saying goes, “When you make a plan, God laughs.” And while not all of us believe in a higher power, there’s no doubt life can be wildly unpredictable.

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Conquer your anxiety (part two)
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Conquer your anxiety (part two)

Whether your anxiety is persistent, frequent, occasional or completely overwhelming, you really can turn your circumstances around and start to get better.

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Conquer your anxiety (part one)
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Conquer your anxiety (part one)

Whether it’s a racing heart and sweaty palms before a big meeting, an irrational reluctance to walk into a party, or a strong sense of doom before stepping on to a flight, we’ve all experienced anxiety.

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An introduction to Winning At Weight Loss
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An introduction to Winning At Weight Loss

We have seen for ourselves the positive repercussions that come from repositioning and conditioning negative schemas. This can imprison people within their own minds and bodies.

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An introduction to conquering anxiety
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An introduction to conquering anxiety

We are all masters of our own destiny. To recognise and understand that you are suffering from anxiety, you have moved closer towards the life you want and deserve.

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The path of emotions to happiness
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The path of emotions to happiness

It can be said that our two most primal instincts are to survive and to pro-create. These instincts keep the human race going! Sadly, there’s no primal drive to make us blissfully happy.

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A food diary is a powerful tool
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A food diary is a powerful tool

It’s never too late to take action, and to start addressing your behavioural patterns and your relationship with food. Many of our clients have commented that we are like detectives!

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Symptom and cause for confidence
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Symptom and cause for confidence

Once you identify, address and resolve the cause that drives the behaviour, the symptoms will disappear almost effortlessly.

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Key elements of a confident person
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Key elements of a confident person

Even those who believe they have no confidence, are confident at something, and this alone is something to proud of. As human beings, we are not born with or without confidence.

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A timeline to pinpoint confidence
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A timeline to pinpoint confidence

Another effective way to look for clues about why you lack confidence is to write a timeline of your life. A list of significant events in your life, with one column describing positive events, and another column describing negative events.

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Our very own worst enemies
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Our very own worst enemies

This is one of the hardest things for people to accept, when they think about improving their lives. They themselves are responsible for the way their life is now. As a grown adult, our minds are fully learned behaviours.

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Are you guilty of self-sabotage?
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Are you guilty of self-sabotage?

Following your dream means facing your TRUE SELF. You need a HUGE amount of courage, and TONS of self-belief. Fear is the number one reason why people do not aim high.

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Watch out for the dream busters
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Watch out for the dream busters

The sad thing is, a few words from a dream buster can stop you in your tracks and kill your ambitions forever. So be prepared and be aware.

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