A food diary is a powerful tool

An open diary and a pencil

Overeating

It’s never too late to take action, and to start addressing your behavioural patterns and your relationship with food.

Many of our clients have commented that we are like detectives! Dissecting the information they have shared with us before sessions, in questionnaires and timelines etc. When helping people with their weight issues, we ask they that they complete a food diary for a minimum of two (ideally three) weeks, so as to document how they eat, where they eat and what they eat. This includes drinking.

We encourage you to do the same! Slip your food diary into a plastic folder and keep it with you at all times. If you’re at home, then leave it in the kitchen. If you’re going out, place it in your pocket or bag. If you’re at work, keep it on your desk… If you’re on a car journey, leave it on the front. It’s important to note down everything at all times of the day.

Food diary

Documenting what you are eating makes you consciously aware of what you are consuming. More importantly, it keeps you accountable. Many of us eat unconsciously and without consideration. Whether that’s popping a biscuit, or a bit of chocolate at work or at home, without even noticing. Such habitual behaviour is a pattern we are swept up in, and it is only when we take conscious action that we can interrupt that habit and start to make changes.

Writing down what you eat is also a great motivator in helping you to avoid unhealthy food and make wiser choices. Once you have completed doing one for three weeks, you may want to continue for good practice – even via using voice notes on your phone. Many people we have worked with have maintained the practice as an ongoing support structure, with some moving on to doing it just from Monday to Friday, with weekends off, to keep themselves focussed and in control.

There are so many marketing companies trying to manipulate your food intake, with a plethora or calorific temptations on every street corner and every channel on television. There is an abundance of food-orientated products and advertisements poking at us daily, reminding us to eat, eat, eat.

However, there will only ever be one person who will be with you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, for the rest of your life, and that person is YOU. Life is not only about living as long as possible, but also being in a fit state to enjoy it. You owe it to your future self, therefore, to be in control of how and what you eat, and writing your food diary is a big step towards that.

Extract from our book, Winning At Weight Loss. Please keep an eye on our TikTok channel for new uploads every week, with specific videos on weight loss. Also, we’d love to see you at one of our upcoming workshops this year, where we go into much greater detail on our approach, tips, techniques and methods.

Nik & Eva Speakman

We have studied and worked together since 1992. Between us we have studied human behaviour and psychology for seven decades. We both share an uncontainable passion to offer hope and to help people lead happier and less inhibited lives.

After many remarkable breakthroughs we created our own behavioural change therapy, ‘Schema Conditioning.’® Subsequent work with trauma victims and their related symptoms, led to the creation of two further trauma-based therapies.

‘Schema Conditioning Psychotherapy.’®

‘Visual Schema Displacement Therapy (VSDT)’®

‘Visual Schema Detachment & Restructuring (VSDR)’®

Qualifications from the creation of our therapies, resulted in training psychology professors, doctors and masters students at Universities in Amsterdam and Utrecht. In 2015, this training produced the two sets of scientific studies conducted into the workings of our therapy; the first two study papers highlighting the remarkable efficacy, was published in the Journal of Behaviour Therapy and Experimental Psychiatry in June 2019. A further third study was then published in the European Journal of Psychotraumatology in April 2021, with a fourth clinical study with hospital patients is currently underway and will be completed by the end of 2022.

In addition to members of the public, we work with, and have treated many high-profile clients and ‘A’ list clients around the world, having had prodigious successes. We are resident therapists on ITV’s multi award-winning ‘This Morning’ and have been for over a decade, we have also had own television shows, one of which, ‘The Speakmans’, also aired on ITV and several countries worldwide. Over the last two decades we have appeared on numerous other television shows as experts, such as the multi award-winning Saturday Night Takeaway.

Our mission is to illuminate that there is ALWAYS HOPE and that overcoming trauma and improving quality of life is entirely possible. Many people have either never been given hope, or worse had hope taken away from them, our aim is to correct that by sharing our message in any way we possibly can, including live workshops, theatre tours, books, podcasts, radio, television, social media and YouTube.

At the heart of all we do, is our relentless mission to offer HOPE to as many people as we possibly can.

https://nikandeva.com
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