4 tips to stop you from feeling down

A woman with her head down and experiencing anxiety

Often times when you feel a bit down, your body feels lethargic and physically often thinks it can’t handle things.  Being aware of that, it’s important to shock your body out of depression.  The best time to start this is specifically in the morning as sometimes you may find it hard to get up and out of bed to start your day.  So here are some tips that might help break through the morning blues:

  1. Jump out of bed, yes literally.  Sometimes when we feel depressed we do not want to get out of bed.  Notice we said we do not want, not we can not. Unless you are physically disabled, you can get out of bed.  So throw those covers off, jump out,  take a deep breath and then congratulate yourself. One small step, yet one big step out for feeling better.

  2. Breathe.  Open a window and take a deep breath threw your nose, hold and then breathe out through your mouth on a 1:4:2 count. You breathe in for one part, hold for four parts, and then breathe out for two parts. The “parts” can be any number of seconds, as long as you maintain the ratio. For example, you might breathe in for three seconds, hold for twelve seconds, and breathe out for six seconds. Correct diaphragmatic breathing  means that instead of your chest expanding and your shoulders raising to accommodate the extra volume or your lungs your back and lower ribcage will expand.

  3. Shower.  Start the water, the colder the better to get you moving.  Sometimes you may we think of a shower as a terrible chore, especially when you are feeling down, so why not put some music on and sing out loud and have fun!  Good clean fun.

  4. Clothes.  Clothes have a big bearing on how we feel so get rid of your depression clothes.  Lose those grey joggers and create a colorful healthy fun look.  Okay, maybe you don’t feel like it, but you have other clothes.  There are many waiting in your wardrobe for you to take advantage of, so, do it and help make your feelings more manageable.  Colourful clothes can heighten your mood. When we feel down sometimes we feel trapped in our mind and in our body, however, these simple tips, once repeated daily will begin to physically alter your state of mind and help work towards a healthy recovery.

Head to our TikTok channel for many more tips to help you feel happier! 🙂 Plus, the case studies, tips and techniques in our book Everyday Confidence should help instill an everyday level of self-love and self-worth which will keep you perked up daily! 

Nik & Eva Speakman

We have studied and worked together since 1992. Between us we have studied human behaviour and psychology for seven decades. We both share an uncontainable passion to offer hope and to help people lead happier and less inhibited lives.

After many remarkable breakthroughs we created our own behavioural change therapy, ‘Schema Conditioning.’® Subsequent work with trauma victims and their related symptoms, led to the creation of two further trauma-based therapies.

‘Schema Conditioning Psychotherapy.’®

‘Visual Schema Displacement Therapy (VSDT)’®

‘Visual Schema Detachment & Restructuring (VSDR)’®

Qualifications from the creation of our therapies, resulted in training psychology professors, doctors and masters students at Universities in Amsterdam and Utrecht. In 2015, this training produced the two sets of scientific studies conducted into the workings of our therapy; the first two study papers highlighting the remarkable efficacy, was published in the Journal of Behaviour Therapy and Experimental Psychiatry in June 2019. A further third study was then published in the European Journal of Psychotraumatology in April 2021, with a fourth clinical study with hospital patients is currently underway and will be completed by the end of 2022.

In addition to members of the public, we work with, and have treated many high-profile clients and ‘A’ list clients around the world, having had prodigious successes. We are resident therapists on ITV’s multi award-winning ‘This Morning’ and have been for over a decade, we have also had own television shows, one of which, ‘The Speakmans’, also aired on ITV and several countries worldwide. Over the last two decades we have appeared on numerous other television shows as experts, such as the multi award-winning Saturday Night Takeaway.

Our mission is to illuminate that there is ALWAYS HOPE and that overcoming trauma and improving quality of life is entirely possible. Many people have either never been given hope, or worse had hope taken away from them, our aim is to correct that by sharing our message in any way we possibly can, including live workshops, theatre tours, books, podcasts, radio, television, social media and YouTube.

At the heart of all we do, is our relentless mission to offer HOPE to as many people as we possibly can.

https://nikandeva.com
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