Motivate yourself to work out more

First, you must know your objective

Think about it, if you don’t know why you are doing it, you are likely to give in. So know why you want to train. For example, do you want to lose weight, get healthier, get fitter, or build muscle? By having a known objective and clear written defined goals, you can succeed.

Enable your motivation

Lack of motivation, in reality, is actually just a lack of organisation. We all have the best of intentions, but life just gets in the way. If you aim to work out in the morning for example, lay your workout clothes out the night before, so you can slip them on as soon as you get up. Some people actually go to sleep in their workout clothes, so that they can just get out of bed, put their training shoes on and get out the door.

Create your virtual reality

Everything starts with a thought, so see your objectives in your mind first. Create a photo (or a movie) of how you are going to look and regularly see yourself exercising in your mind too.

Schedule your training, like any other appointment in your life

If you have a set time for training, then make this is like any other appointment in your diary. Approach it just like going to the dentist for example. Once it’s scheduled, you have to turn up.

Find a training partner

A training partner can help you to maintain your commitment. It can also be much more fun when you have someone to share your training and progress with.

Getting new workout clothes

Whilst it could appear silly to some, but there is something about wearing brand new clothes when we work out that just makes us feel that little bit better doing it. So set yourself a reward that once you reach an interim goal, you will treat yourself to new workout clothes.

Take a training selfie

This may seem an odd thing to say, but if you look at taking a selfie from your training session, it will do two things. One, give you a visual record of your commitment and two, it will engage your brain’s reticular activation system, which highlights what is important to you.

Have an easy trigger

What we mean by this is: a trigger that always gets you in the headspace to go to work out. Such as a special expresso, a particular track of music that you can warm up to, or taking your dog for a walk. You then make this the trigger to the start of your routine. That then becomes the thing that requires the willpower and not the actual workout itself.

WE WILL LEAVE YOU WITH SOME FINAL QUOTES FOR YOU TO REMEMBER!

A one and a quarter hour workout is just about 5% of your day, which in the scheme of things in easy.

“I wish I was less fit”, said no one ever!

If you say you can or say you can’t, you will always be right.

For more tips and advice, head to our TikTok channel and listen to our podcast Making The Change.

Nik & Eva Speakman

We have studied and worked together since 1992. Between us we have studied human behaviour and psychology for seven decades. We both share an uncontainable passion to offer hope and to help people lead happier and less inhibited lives.

After many remarkable breakthroughs we created our own behavioural change therapy, ‘Schema Conditioning.’® Subsequent work with trauma victims and their related symptoms, led to the creation of two further trauma-based therapies.

‘Schema Conditioning Psychotherapy.’®

‘Visual Schema Displacement Therapy (VSDT)’®

‘Visual Schema Detachment & Restructuring (VSDR)’®

Qualifications from the creation of our therapies, resulted in training psychology professors, doctors and masters students at Universities in Amsterdam and Utrecht. In 2015, this training produced the two sets of scientific studies conducted into the workings of our therapy; the first two study papers highlighting the remarkable efficacy, was published in the Journal of Behaviour Therapy and Experimental Psychiatry in June 2019. A further third study was then published in the European Journal of Psychotraumatology in April 2021, with a fourth clinical study with hospital patients is currently underway and will be completed by the end of 2022.

In addition to members of the public, we work with, and have treated many high-profile clients and ‘A’ list clients around the world, having had prodigious successes. We are resident therapists on ITV’s multi award-winning ‘This Morning’ and have been for over a decade, we have also had own television shows, one of which, ‘The Speakmans’, also aired on ITV and several countries worldwide. Over the last two decades we have appeared on numerous other television shows as experts, such as the multi award-winning Saturday Night Takeaway.

Our mission is to illuminate that there is ALWAYS HOPE and that overcoming trauma and improving quality of life is entirely possible. Many people have either never been given hope, or worse had hope taken away from them, our aim is to correct that by sharing our message in any way we possibly can, including live workshops, theatre tours, books, podcasts, radio, television, social media and YouTube.

At the heart of all we do, is our relentless mission to offer HOPE to as many people as we possibly can.

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